My OCD has been acting up and people all
around me say….Why can’t you just forget this nonsense?....Stop worrying!!....Just
think positive!! People give me advice that hurt me even more.
So, what is it like to have OCD?
First, what is OCD?
OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive
Disorder and is diagnosed as repetitious thoughts and/or actions motivated by
fear and anxiety. To reduce the anxiety, we “ritualize” - acting out our
compulsions by repeating certain things until it feels right.
Most of us know that our fears are “irrational.”
They are based on our imagination. They logically make no sense. We may have
these fears but, in reality, we are being bluffed by a sensation that deceive
and emotionally cripple us.
And according to the website “Theguardian.com”,
the World Health Organization (WHO) lists OCD as one of the top 10 most
debilitating illnesses.
Let me put you in the mind of an OCD
sufferer and what we have to confront. I believe that we all have the following
feelings. OCD sufferers have them more.
Have you ever felt the following: you
have left your home, you get half way down the road and you have a sudden
thought that causes anxiety: …….Did I turn off the stove? …..Did I turn off the
faucets? ……Did I put out my cigarette in the ashtray? Etc…etc.,...Something is
troubling you and you cannot get in it out of your mind.
You try to reason with your anxiety. You
go over and over in your mind, replaying what you did and what you might not
have done. No amount of thinking it through brings peace of mind.
You just cannot get this “thing” out of
your mind.
Somebody tells you just to forget it.
But this is futile. You want to forget it. And get it out of your mind. And get
on with your life.
Now multiple those feelings about 100,
200, even 1000 times a day. And that’s what many OCD sufferers go through.
We’ve all had these feelings.
Fortunately, for most, it is fairly rare. But OCD sufferers have them on a
consistent basis.
You wouldn’t tell an alcoholic wanting a
drink to forget it. You wouldn’t tell someone suffering with the flu to stop
feeling this way. Then why should an OCD sufferer plagued by his anxiety be
treated any differently? To tell him to forget his problem is telling him to
forget his pain.
For recovery, pain must run its course.
Another feeling we confront: have you
ever handed anything in – a report, an essay, sent out a letter – you know is
right. But something doesn’t “feel right.”You keep checking and checking.
Or you’re about to leave your house,
you’ve checked half a dozen times. Again, something doesn’t “feel right.” And you keep checking.
We’ve all done this. OCD sufferers just
do more of it.
We keep giving into our compulsion until
it feels right. We have trouble living with uncertainty and doubt. That is why
OCD is called “The Doubting Disease.”
The more that the OCD sufferer gives into
his fears, the more anxiety he creates and more fears become prey to his OCD.
It’s been said that if you give your OCD an inch, it takes a mile.
We all have one or two
obsessions/compulsions. Medical officials feel when obsessions/compulsions
control one’s life, consuming much of a person’s time, then there is a medical
problem.
What’s the difference between obsessions
and compulsions? Obsessions are the thoughts or ideas that the sufferer cannot
get rid of. They cause anxiety. Compulsions are the physical acts or rituals to
neutralize his anxiety.
What I have mentioned here is one small
facet of OCD – checking things. There is a host of other behaviors that plague
OCD sufferers – hand washing, doing things in a specific order, avoiding
words/phrases to name a few.
What causes OCD? Were we born this way? Is
it caused by some brain chemical imbalance? Or is there something “broken” in
our brains? There are many prevailing theories.
One of the theories that I find
comforting comes from the book “The Brain That Changes Itself” by Canadian
psychiatrist Dr. Norman Doige, M.D.
Studies have shown from brain scans that
when we have an OCD attack, there are three parts of the brain that are
involved - the “orbital frontal cortex”, the “cingulate gyrus” and the “caudate
nucleus”. They are hyperactive in OCD sufferers.
The initial OCD attack starts in the
cortex which sends a signal to the cingulate gyrus which triggers the dreadful
anxiety causing the physical sensations we associate with dread.
Signals are, then, sent to the “caudate
nucleus” or the “automatic gearshift” allowing our thoughts to flow from one to
the next. Except in cases of OCD, where the caudate becomes extremely “sticky”.
Probably one of the reasons we don’t
respond to logic and reasoning when it comes to our fears. And why comments
like “just snap out of it” by those around us are so futile and insulting. And
why unresolved fears often torment us. And why we cannot wrestle our negative
feelings into submission in an instant.
The main treatments for OCD are
medications and CBT or Cognitive Behavior Therapy.
The cornerstone of CBT is “ERP” – “E” is for “exposure therapy” where the sufferer faces his fears and “RP” for “response prevention” where he is prevented giving into his rituals to neutralize his anxiety. To say it is difficult is an understatement.
The cornerstone of CBT is “ERP” – “E” is for “exposure therapy” where the sufferer faces his fears and “RP” for “response prevention” where he is prevented giving into his rituals to neutralize his anxiety. To say it is difficult is an understatement.
And the wait to take CBT is torturous
long. I’ve taken it twice. I had to wait over a year each time.
If the sufferer has no medical insurance
to cover treatment, CBT can be extremely expensive.
As for medications, research says that
meds work for only 30% - 50% of patients and only accompanied with CBT. There
are also the negative side effects including suicidal thoughts.
There is no instant cure for OCD. Many
of us have to work on our recovery for a life time. The road to getting better is
long, painful and difficult.
When our OCD acts up, please do NOT tell
us to just forget this nonsense!…. Or just stop worrying!....Or just think
positive!. We’d love to be able to do
this.
If you want to be helpful, understanding
and empathy with our pain and frustrations without being judgmental can go a
long way.
- Ken Munro
Congratulations Ken, great blog!
ReplyDeleteAnonymous:
ReplyDeleteThank you.
Ken Munro